| Why do I always call him and he never calls me? | | | | your doing as they are his. |
| You've likely been wondering this for some time. The | | | | The simple fix is quite surprising. Stop calling him. |
| scenario when a woman is asking this question is | | | | Talking to him about it sounds more like the mature |
| fairly typical. The relationship as a whole is really | | | | and reasonable thing to do, doesn't it? The problem |
| lovely. You two get along. He's charming, fun and | | | | with this approach is that men just can't see things |
| very passionate. The problem comes when it's time | | | | from our point of view all the time. Even though |
| to arrange your next date or when you just want to | | | | talking to him on the phone may be incredibly |
| talk. He never does the calling. If you want to talk to | | | | important to you, it's not to him. He sees it as a way |
| him it's turned into your job to pick up the phone and | | | | to talk briefly before seeing you in person. He's much |
| place the calls. It's frustrating but it's fixable. You | | | | more focused on those in person meetings than |
| don't have to continue to wonder why he's | | | | talking on the phone. That's why bringing it up will |
| challenged in the area of phone calls. Change it. It's | | | | only serve to make him label you as a drama queen. |
| not as hard as you think. | | | | You absolutely don't want that to happen. |
| The reason why you seem to have to always call | | | | If you stop calling him you're sending a very loud and |
| him is simple. You took on that role early in the | | | | clear message to the man. He'll realize fairly quickly |
| relationship and it's hard to shake it now. Think about | | | | that you're tired of being the constant caller. It's |
| it carefully for a moment. When you two first | | | | going to take some time to change the pattern of |
| started dating was it you who made those calls? Did | | | | calling your relationship though. It may actually even |
| you do it because he wasn't calling you? Have you | | | | take a couple of days or more for him to realize you |
| ever gotten upset with him for not calling you more? | | | | haven't called before he does. Be patient and stay |
| If you answered "yes" to any one of these, the | | | | focused on not calling. You'll be glad once the phone |
| calling issues in your relationship are just as much | | | | rings more often and it's him calling you. |